Bullying and 13 reasons!

In my 3 decades of education and being around people that are ignorant I never seen so much damage done to people in that of bullying situations. The bully in the situations feels entitled and invincible knowing their actions are wrong. The victim endures unreal amounts of stress and peer pressure that sometimes results in self harm or worse Suicide. However there is a third group of people that feel both and have a choice to act or remain silent. this group of people have the power just as the bully does and just as the victim does with one single decision. The innocent bystander endures more stress and health related complications then most bullies and about equal to the victim. To me if you are an innocent bystander and do nothing your worse than the bully. If you have seen 13 reasons a show about a girl who commits suicide and leaves these audio recording behind in addition blames or states that these 13 reasons (13 reasons are kids in her school) are why she committed suicide. Im not trying to downplay suicide or what she was going through, it had to have been unbearable. But for a Network to allow a show that states there are 13 reasons why anyone committed suicide I feel is extremely dangerous. That show promotes blaming others for suicide. Am I being naive? Help me to understand why that is ok? bringing light on bullying and suicide i get but no matter how profound or bad its gets we must take responsibility for our actions and GET HELP PLEASE GET HELP. Don't try to ruin others’ lives by blaming them. Suicide is an extremely selfish way to go and to blame others is selfish entitlement. Please comment let me know what im not getting!